I would consider myself bisexual with an aesthetic preference for females but a sexual preference for males. I think it's easier for a woman to be good looking to me than a male, but I eventually want to have children. As far as which gender I'd prefer to date, it would all depend on the person and if I could picture myself falling in love with them.
My mother is a bit closed-minded when it comes to the idea of me being bisexual. She often says, "How do yo know you're bi if you've never had a relationship with a girl?" "What makes you think you're bi if you've never been sexually intimate with a girl before?" And I respond with, "I look at hot woman and feel sexually attracted towards them the same way I feel sexually attracted towards hot men." I really don't see why it's so confusing, to her or anyone. And I don't understand why so many people either irl or online seem to think it's just a "phase" or since I'm a teenager I'm just experimenting.
I could rant on, but it's pointless; be who you are. If you think guys are cute, be with a guy. If you think girls are cute, be with a girl. Don't let someone apply limitations to you just because they're incapable of understanding that your brain and preferences function differently than theirs.
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