Forgive and forget, or hold a grudge?

[Corey]

I'm a huge grudge holder, which kinda stinks. It's not really something I can help, because, in essence, it's a part of my personality. I NEVER forget, but I almost always forgive if the other person shows remorse/is especially kind to me, but, otherwise, I tend to hold resentment for people who really hurt my feelings. I'm not making a personal vendetta against any and all people who wrong me, though!!! I just think of that person negatively, and if anyone asks me about that person I obviously don't put in a good word. Apologizing and being kind is just being a decent human being, after all!

I think there's only been one person that I've never forgiven, because they keep trying to apologize but obviously show no remorse and continue to pester me despite me going off on them. Like, I've never been so mean to a person before, but I felt like it was necessary because I was so mistreated. I don't think about it much and I'm not actively angry over it 24/7, but I really want to have nothing to do with the person and ignore all of their attempts at feigned apologies. I PROMISE I'M NEVER MEAN, THOUGH. I'M NICE TO EVERYONE ALL THE TIME!!!!!!

[brandon_g]

I am totally in capable of holding a grudge against anybody! Period. Even if I wanted to. My personality and who I am in general, makes it so every day is a clean slate. Now does that mean I forget if someone really wrongs me or whatever, no, it just means I usually forgive for it almost instantly and pretty much let things go within the same day.

I have been like this my whole, from a small child to adulthood. This is probably what me a great target for bullies in elementary school, but hey, what can you do, who you are is who are. I love who I am and I wouldn't change it for the world.

In short, I CAN'T hold grudges even if I wanted to and will pretty much let things pretty quickly. :)

[Dratini]

I'm pretty good at letting things go. I don't really care enough to remember that I was holding a grudge.

[Bulbasaur]

I can't hold a grudge for the life of me. XD I hold it until I see the person in real life, then I can't help but let go of it.