Quote Originally Posted by Neo Oddish View Post
Don't be freaked out. Take it easy and don't let this get to you, because it would mean Sally's gaining the edge and her schemes are working. You don't want that and it would encourage this same kind of emotionally abusive behavior with you and possibly others if she were to realize it's working.

Continue the account/message blocks on DeviantArt and whatever else she might be contacting you through, but don't respond anymore. You've already made it clear you don't want to be involved with her problems anymore and any kind of response means she's getting through to you and you're listening. You've already tried listening to her, but obviously she didn't listen to you, so don't continue that one-sided exchange. And you and your sister are right, there's a 99.99% chance that account that posted that comment is actually Sally. It sounds like it definitely follows the pattern of manipulation she's been using on you. But good call on blocking that one, too. She's really starting to sound like someone else we're all familiar with... a certain he-who-must-not-be-named. Maybe they can go get married. XD

As I mentioned before, she needs professional help. The kind that only a doctor or therapist can give. Not us everyday peeps online. If she's really feeling suicidal in a sincere way (and not just in a "let me grab this person's heartstrings" way), again, she should be calling that suicide hotline for real guidance, not involve you. A person's empathy and compassion should never be used as a weapon against them. That's just downright evil. So whatever comes out of this, never feel guilty or pressured about anything she's trying to do. You've made your message clear, you've told her you want to be left alone, and that you can't help her. That's it. You've closed the book. Now chuck it in a hole and bury it.

Still, in the end, it definitely sounds like she's attempting once again to leverage emotional abuse to gain control over you. Don't fall for it. Quietly block all of her accounts, ignore her messages, and eventually it will stop. No one enjoys talking to silence for long. Every now and then, she may try another go at it, but continue with the silence and the account blocks.

And yeah, here's to hoping this is the last you have to deal with this and this quickly gets buried. I once had to deal with something similar to this and I'm happy to say it's been quite a few years since the issue resurfaced. I'm hoping you get to enjoy that peace of mind sooner than later.
I'm definitely trying not to. I just got a message from her on tumblr saying that I was being unfair by blocking her and not giving her a chance to explain. I don't want to. I'm DONE with these conversations. She messaged me anonymously on tumblr so I couldn't block her. This kind of scares me though because she obviously thinks I'm in the wrong and being 'unfair' and that she's totally innocent. And knowing her, she'll spread these rumors about me to everyone else.

I'm definitely not going to respond though. The thing that makes the tumblr message so frustrating is that she is never willing to listen to ME when we disagree. I've tried to explain stuff to her and she just ignored me. So this is extra stupid. Haha, maybe they'd get along. XD

Yeah, I mean, it seems like she has a wierd unhealthy fixation on me (and my story). And wants to blame me/it for everything. And yeah, I mean, we don't even know each other all that well. We never did. We were never super close. So all this just baffling to me. But yes, definitely. Good advice.

Yep, so far I've blocked everything of hers that I can. I'm just a little worried about the fact that she thinks I'm doing it for mean/petty reasons ("accusing her" and "not letting her explain") and she might turn others against me. But I know I shouldn't care about that.

I really hope it is. I just don't get why...she keeps contacting me. After I said I don't want to talk to her. And everything I say gets twisted into something horrible. So I'm just not going to say anything more.

But yeah, thanks a lot for replying to this, I was really freaked out yesterday.