The Last Poster Wins [v28]

[Noblejanobii]

Well, if she's paying the rent and the one you want is more expensive, I don't see why it would be an issue if you pay the difference from what the other one costs.

But if you're paying the rent entirely, no way should this even be an issue.

The apartments are roughly the same price so it’s negligible either way (I’m not kidding it’s like $25 different). But I will be paying the entire rent so again, you’d think it’d be my choice. But alas, I do not get a vote.

Either way at this point I could care very little, since this will be one of the final decisions she gets a say in for a while.

[Neo Emolga]

The apartments are roughly the same price so it’s negligible either way (I’m not kidding it’s like $25 different). But I will be paying the entire rent so again, you’d think it’d be my choice. But alas, I do not get a vote.

Either way at this point I could care very little, since this will be one of the final decisions she gets a say in for a while.

WHY DO YOU NOT GET A VOTE? The entire decision should be up to you! This is your living arrangement, if she doesn't like it, too bad! Heck, if you moved way out of state, there's nothing she could do about it.

Really, this is serious control freak condescending paternalism.

[Noblejanobii]

idk how much time you've got to change her mind or if she ever will though.
Will you feel bitter about your place if you have to choose the one she chooses for you?

Not enough time really and she’s pretty much already set her mind to this place so I doubt I could convince her otherwise.

Ye it’s not like I hate the place or anything. In terms of a lot of things like space and amenities it is definitely better, it’s just not what I want.

WHY DO YOU NOT GET A VOTE? The entire decision should be up to you! This is your living arrangement, if she doesn't like it, too bad! Heck, if you moved way out of state, there's nothing she could do about it.

Really, this is serious control freak condescending paternalism.

Yeah I don’t know what to tell ya man. This is just how she is. How she’s always been.