@Dratini: Interesting points. I will admit that no loves I've had (romantic or not) have been a choice. For instance, I did not choose to love Pokemon, and yet I do. In saying that though, I do believe that certain choices can be made to further your love, or to perhaps keep the chance of love alive. For instance, if I didn't love a game at first, I could make the choice to continue playing it...which leads me to loving it eventually. Or I could choose not to. As far as falling in love with it--I don't feel like that's a choice.

However, it would be different for everyone. I don't choose to love anything. I can choose to put in effort towards loving it, but I can't force myself to love something.