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    Quote Originally Posted by Vigilante Janobii View Post
    I should also add a big one for me that hacks me off to no end:

    -Being called a lesbian any time I am seen hanging out with a girl. Like, I get I hang out with guys more than girls, but oh my gosh, that does not equate me hanging out with girls on rare occasions meaning I'm dating them. That is not how lesbians work. At least, I don't think. I wouldn't know because I'm not a lesbian and hate getting called one since my childhood reasonings. @Suicune's Fire is this how lesbians work? Do you just ignore other females all together and the only girl you hang out with is your lesbian girlfriend? Because I could be very wrong but I'm pretty sure this is not how this works!
    Um, I don't know. xD I mean, we're not a culture. We're just regular people. xD I hang out with my female friends and my male friends equally. In fact, when I'm just with my girlfriend, I think most people assume we're just friends. xD I mean, girls can get away with a whole lot more than guys can. We can giggle and hug and stand within a close vicinity and people think it's a normal friendship. But if guys do that, then there's no question, ya know? xD I just do whatever. I mean, people make assumptions that my brother and I are together (ew) if we are with one another so it goes both ways.

    Quote Originally Posted by Neo Emolga View Post
    It works the same for guys. If two friends are hanging out and having fun, why the hell do some people think there's a sexual relation there? Yesterday, my friend and I went to the movies to go see Captain America: Civil War. No problem with that. And yet, neither of us are homosexual. So where do people get the idea that something like that makes it so? Since when does it go from "two guys hanging out and doing fun stuff" to "a gay date?"

    Man, and some people wonder why no one wants to leave the house anymore.
    I get what you mean, but this happens waaaaaaaaaay more if there's a girl hanging out with a guy. Considering heterosexual relationships are much more common, I think that it's far more common for someone to assume that two friends of the opposite gender are romantically involved than two friends of the same gender. I mean, heck, I have a close male friend who I've known for six/seven years, and his FAMILY thought we were dating... xD Simply because I was a female friend. It wasn't until about a year ago that that was cleared up, haha.

    No-one wants to leave the house? xD Come on. That's taking it a bit far. Even if there were assumptions that you were romantically involved with the person you go out with (female or male), that's not a reason to stay at home. I don't care who thinks I'm with who! xD It's their problem, not mine.

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