being interrupted or ignored when i talk

being misgendered after ive told someone my pronouns

when people leave the toilet lid up instead of putting it down after theyre done, like not the seat but the actual lid when there is one, i dont know why this bothers me but it Just Does

also when people leave cabinets and drawers and stuff open and then just leave the room, i understand occasionally forgetting but when its a consistent thing its so obnoxious to me for no reason at all