What is your opinion on them? Do you view them as useful tools to "learn your lesson" and be cautious of people who have wrong you in the past? Or do you think they are an unhealthy thing to carry around?


Personally I have always believe "Grudges weigh a ton and forgiveness is feather light". I think grudges only hurt the individual carrying them, and I have always felt much better when I let go of things. This isn't to say that you should forget everything that happened but I do think it's good to "come to terms with it" and move on if possible. This is easier said than done in a lot of cases, but I do think it's important.

So what are you views? Have you ever carried/do you carry a grudge? What happened?