Action replays aren't sold in stores anymore, since it's a discontinued item for at least half a decade, if not more. Your best chances are online stores or online auction sites such as ebay. If you have no access, tough luck and just play the game like it's meant to be played.
I guess if you need to figure out which is which, you can turn everything on, see what cheats you have on, then systematically turn off lines one/two at a time and see when all of your codes stop functioning. Or just wipe everything and start over with the codes you found on your site. In general, asking for help about a particular cheating device on a site that isn't dedicated to said cheating device will give you no help. You're honestly better off looking for a forum that is dedicated to your cheating device.
You provide absolutely no detail. However, it's very rare for an ISP (i.e. internet service provider) to do anything about any particular user on the internet, considering that they may not even be using the same ISP in the first place. You mentioned chat logs, so I'm guessing something happened on AIM? If so, just block the user and go on living your life as normal. There's really no need to contact any company that'll just ignore you for the most part.





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