It's a bit different for you if you have decided that you don't want kinds, but me, I want kids. O: And since I'm female I do have a ticking biological clock. I mean I know there are things I can do, but it still worries me, you know? Plus I have like, zero savings and no job. I most likely won't ever own a place of my own with the real estate as high as it is. I'm still trying to sort out my career, so I hope this one works. xD

I do understand not wanting kids, though. You're right. Once you have kids it's less about you and more about them, so you need to go in with that mindset or it's just not for you. But I'm happiest when I make others happy, so I think I want to. :3 Of course I would like to travel first. And it's not as though your free time is totally gone; family is there to help look after your kids at times.

I hear ya. I meet very few people that I'm actually interested in (mainly cause I don't go out and now can't go out xD). But yeah, if I do they're usually taken. It doesn't help that currently it seems like EVERYONE I know is getting engaged, married, or having kids. ;__; Personally I don't do dating sites either, and I have no interest in pursuing a long distance relationship if I can avoid it -- much too hard. Here's hoping one day we'll each find someone. XD I have found that I'm a lot less stressed being on my own, though. But at the same time I am lonely.