Quote Originally Posted by Lychee View Post
idk how much time you've got to change her mind or if she ever will though.
Will you feel bitter about your place if you have to choose the one she chooses for you?
Not enough time really and she’s pretty much already set her mind to this place so I doubt I could convince her otherwise.

Ye it’s not like I hate the place or anything. In terms of a lot of things like space and amenities it is definitely better, it’s just not what I want.

Quote Originally Posted by Neo Emolga View Post
WHY DO YOU NOT GET A VOTE? The entire decision should be up to you! This is your living arrangement, if she doesn't like it, too bad! Heck, if you moved way out of state, there's nothing she could do about it.

Really, this is serious control freak condescending paternalism.
Yeah I don’t know what to tell ya man. This is just how she is. How she’s always been.