Quote Originally Posted by Shadow Tracker Max View Post
I carry a lot of grudges around with me. Im half tempted to hold a grudge for you creating this thread ;)
Grudges are equally as important as forgiveness..dont let the hippies tell you otherwise. Grudges are natural, anger is natural..if they werent natrual you would do them without thinking. When a person truely understands themself they will understand that anger, grudges, judgement are all things that have to exist to keep a person a live. This mechanizes saved your ansetors and they keep your mind focused on people or things that can not be trust.
Hahah d'aww, don't be mad ;_;

But in all honesty although my opinion is almost opposite of yours I can totally understand your points! I guess it's really up to the individual and how they manage their thoughts. To me grudges impact me to such a degree that it's bad for my mental health so I learned to forgive quickly (although it wasn't easy). If people carry grudges and they find they don't affect them too much, but benefit them in some way then all the power to them.

I guess at the end of the day it's just not for me.