hahaha I picked a side of this that wasnt popular for a reason. I love Absol but this was a fluff topic that was meant not for a real debate but for everyone to do exactly what they have done. Point out reasons not to hold grudges. Im to old to fall into this group of thought. No time left to say that forgiveness is the end all and be all to life, Id never believe in such a thing. Anyone who says you have to let something go is ignoring the amazing things that have been done through anger and bitterness. As I pointed out some of the best works of art come from hate, pain and anger. Grudges are natural, envy is natural and its not true that people holding grudges cant grow or change or learn. Its just not.

Im honsetly glad you all feel the way you do and thats more power to all of you. I dont feel sad for you because you feel so one sided. Nore do I hold it against you to claim that grudges are any different that judgement or envy. I have been around and see many different forms of motivation, many different people going through joy and pain. All of it is needed. You all have missed the point of what Im saying.

At no point did I say everyone should hold grudges forever nor did I ever say I am holding a grudge against anyone or anything right now. My point of view has formed through many many life experiences I have been in which is a lot. I just wil not agree that Human beings can just apply a positive attitude and everything is fine. We are just too different...struggling and pain are just as important to who you are as the fluffy moment of joy.

Ill respect that everyone is going to basically say the same thing. Not sure why you guys cant respect my view...

Also even if I did live with extremely feelings..look at my presence on the forum look all the things I have done just on this site. You look at that and tell me that grudges are holding me back ;)