"I carry a lot of grudges around with me. Im half tempted to hold a grudge for you creating this thread ;)" <-- Yes, yes you DID. The way you throw around grudges like it's just candy really upsets me, you must not understand how negative life can be and what it can do to a person.

Too old? No one is too old to learn new things and it's obvious you are set in your ways and your mind is severely closed. I find people of your generation are so set in their ways and they don't realize that the things they believe are so outdated...

You ignored everything we've said and you must of had a very sheltered life in your younger years to truly believe grudges are useful... I feel you need to learn the facts, seriously. I did not take years of different programs and therapy for you to come along and tell me my teachings are ridiculous. My teachings are based off of true research of the human mind, social scientists and the like. Of course, it's not that easy, you can't just put on a happy face and everything is fine, that's why people DEAL WITH THINGS and LET THEM GO instead of holding on to petty grudges like you do.

You missed the point of everything we've said, and frankly? You need a paradigm shift. I don't feel what we've said is onesided at all, your troubles do help shape you, but it's how you DEAL WITH THEM that really makes you the person you are. And some people are overridden with bitterness and hate, and it teaches the world the wrong message. Balance is critical and hate is not needed in that balance.

A grudge is a form of hate.

Everything that has been done out of anger and bitterness came with a price, and none of those prices were pretty, history and otherwise.

Your brain seriously needs a good untwisting.

I cannot respect your view simply because it's twisted and you keep disregarding everything we're saying and our own experiences.

If you've done so many "great things" out of bitterness and hate, then prove to the world.

I will not reply again.

I dislike public forums, always have, always will. They scare me and frankly, I really don't want to be here right now and should never of posted in this forum.

Too full of scary people such as this.