*sigh* I wish. I'm going to start off by saying, well, you're wrong if you think everyone gets them. I've never had a crush in the way anyone has ever described it to me. My throat never goes dry, I don't feel flustered around the person, I don't get butterflies, or anything really. I think the closest I've ever come to a crush is the literal acknowledgement that a guy is someone I would totally date, and I don't think that's the same thing as a crush. I'm still kind of waiting for the infamous "first crush" to occur and I'll be honest, it's still disappointing to this day that I've never had even a little crush, especially since I've always been told once you hit puberty that you're immediately supposed to start having crushes. I don't think I've ever had one in my life and I've never once been told "oh yeah that's okay". I guess society views that it's not but you know, it's one of those things. Maybe I'll start having crushes when I get to college.