Have not considered that, mostly because the guys at my school are pretty bold and usually tell a girl right out if they're into her, or they're clever about it and make it obvious but not too obvious. I'd say the best way to confess is to try one of two tactics: 1) The April Cinderella: This one's a classic at my school, especially since we're usually on spring break around April 1 so it usually happens via text or something which makes it much easier. On April 1, confess to someone that you like them, if they react badly then just say April Fool's but if not, then say it's actually true. Works quite well where I live. But if you don't want to try that then, 2) The Metaphor game. This one's a bit tricker but usually earns a lot of brownie points with the girls if you pull it off right. So, I'll give an example for this one then explain why it works. My freshman year, this guy really liked my best friend but he wasn't sure how to tell her. At the time, both my best friend and I were really into Ouran High School Host Club and this guy found out about it via some friends or something. So, one day, he walks up to my best friend and I and just flat out says, "Hey you're Haruhi and I'm Tamaki." Then fled before either of us could process it. I kid you not we spent all fourth period noodling on it before it clicked what he meant by that. Even though my best friend ended up turning the guy down gently (she wasn't ready to date at the time), it still earned enough brownie points with her that she vouched for her to the guy's current girlfriend. Here's why, by pulling a trick like that, you're showing that: a) you know some of the girl's interests and b) you know enough about them to make a clever parallel so you either have some interest in the topic yourself or you're willing to create an interest to be with the girl. This can backfire though because if you don't hang out with said girl often enough, to be able to find out about her interests could make you seem like a creeper or stalker so be careful if you plan to use this method.







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