The big turnoff for me about MMOs is how there only seem to be two kinds of guilds. You have the super-obsessive guilds that somehow survive through life while playing the game every possibly millisecond (and expect you to the same as well) but actually do things as a guild, and then you have the casual guilds that do absolutely nothing but chat and never actually do anything as a guild. I have never been able to find that happy medium, and some guilds have so much bloody drama going on that it's enough to rip hair out over.

Really, some guilds treat people with jobs, lives, other hobbies, and interests in multiple games like they have ADHD. I often lone wolf in MMOs for these reasons.

Also, I usually don't bother with crafting either. I dunno, I've never really enjoyed it and it often feels like it eats up more money than it gives back. In WoW, I just did Mining and Enchantment (both "gathering" skills) and I made WAY more money selling the materials on auction house rather than trying to make something.