How good are you at keeping friends?
How good are you at keeping friends?
I'm decent at it. I'm a good friend, I think, but I often get paranoid that my friends are actually annoyed with me and/or don't want to be my friend, and sometimes that anxiety loses them. :P
decent enough. .. most of the time. tho at times it will be .. months or even years of silence then i'll take up contact again.
the good news is that i havent changed much over the past.. forever.because im actually a robotso cathing up to me aint hard :)
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Well I'm probably the lowest posting active member. All a part of my brilliant strategy to make the few things i post seem good!
I'm not a great friend. I am lazy about organising things and keeping in touch. People seem to think that means I don't really like them, but really I find that much socialising to be enough, especially when they often like to do things that I don't really enjoy, like go out drinking and stuff.
All the friends I've had for years are really chill. I can not even talk to them for a few months and then we just pick up where we left off. Sometimes I wish I had a group of close friends who liked to do things that I liked for a change, like sports or nerd or craft things. But I'm shy and not good at making friends either. xD
I'm pretty good at holding friends. I have a very large friend circle - I'm pretty friendly with almost everyone and have a lot of good, close friends (though I keep two best friends closer than anyone else). That said, I'm rather clingy, so I'm usually the one that sets up get-togethers and initiates conversation. And, like Jacob, if I stop talking to a friend, I seldom hear from them.
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I've never lost any so I guess I'm pretty good at it.
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Up until recently I had no friends or they were just wolves in sheep's clothing. I've lost a few since but for mutual benefit since we saw no point in continuing to be friends.
I don't have a lot of friends, but the few that I have are very good ones. As I've found out, friends come and go throughout the years and it's impossible to hold onto all of them as time and distance separates people, but every now and then you find new people that share similar interests and are decent people also.
I seem to be decent at keeping friends that I made during my years of junior high. We still communicate, and hang out around a weekend per month.
A good amount of people had to go, though. Toxic relationships can make or break you!
However, I need to branch my relationships out by a good margin. As my interests broaden, I need to increase my audience my desire to learn more, and yearning for relationships in which I can act more of the best version of myself. Not to mention fostering more sustainable relationships for in case something drastic happens, and vice versa. I seem to realize that I cannot do everything by myself in an effective manner without paying a great deal of quality time away from more important matters of life. It also seems to help when you have someone you completely trust around upon realization that I have lived in my head for too long.
As the saying goes, "show me your friend, and I will show you your future".
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