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    Quote Originally Posted by Noblejanobii View Post
    That's the thing, I do have people in my life that do care. If I shown an inkling of interest in something I either have to be the best at it right away or I'm not good enough ever. And then if I lose interest? Doesn't matter, gotta keep doing it because now I'm pretty skilled and it'd be a waste of time in money. This is the exact reason why I hated playing basketball for years.

    Great. I'm glad that setup worked for you. I've already explained why it won't work for me. And recently had this reinforced when I was trying to explain this to someone else and upon saying that I generally take tips well they responded "No offense, but the last time I tried to give a tip, I got attacked for it." Because rather than sympathizing with me they thought it better to label me a basket case. This is also coming from an artist that up until a little while ago I held in high regard when it came to advise.

    You're just noticing? Man and here I thought it had been pretty obvious. Doesn't change a thing. If people don't like it, they won't comment, or if they do, it's hateful. Thus, when you have upwards of twenty views on something with no comments, it means twenty people didn't like my stuff enough to leave a comment. That's just how it is.

    Like I said to Chakra, you make it sound so simple. Keep in mind I'm over fifteen years younger than you and was raised in a completely different environment. Let me put it this way, the reason I like Mimikyu so much is because I relate to it on an emotional level. It is me if I were a Pokémon. Hidden and ashamed.

    Well I can't really do that if all the people I admire start to turn against me.
    Eh, I don't know what to tell you then. I'm just saying these things worked for me, so I thought maybe there's a chance they'd work for you. But if you're sure they wouldn't, then I guess I'd just have to leave it alone since I'm not really sure how to approach this now. You're right in a way, I'm not certain how things are from your perspective.

    But please keep in mind that Chakra and I were only trying to help and encourage you. We meant no harm in it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Neo Emolga View Post
    Eh, I don't know what to tell you then. I'm just saying these things worked for me, so I thought maybe there's a chance they'd work for you. But if you're sure they wouldn't, then I guess I'd just have to leave it alone since I'm not really sure how to approach this now. You're right in a way, I'm not certain how things are from your perspective.

    But please keep in mind that Chakra and I were only trying to help and encourage you. We meant no harm in it.
    Yes I know you're trying to help, and I appreciate the intent, but those things just don't work for me.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Noblejanobii View Post
    Yes I know you're trying to help, and I appreciate the intent, but those things just don't work for me.
    That's what friends are for. You even have us to help if you need it, so you really can if you try and fail. You can't expect to try and it immediately brush something off. It takes time for that and it'll be hard, yeah. Maybe it doesn't work on you, but nothing ever works out perfectly anyway. Everything takes time

    The time is upon us...


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