Quote Originally Posted by LKWayvern View Post
It's not just that. What even is a date?? Movies and tv shows make it seem like all this planning and money has to go into it, but then I here people just... doing whatever? Going bowling or to the mall or hanging out at home playing video games... When does it stop being hanging out with a friend and start being a date with someone you like? Is there a boundary or rule or whatever???
I think it just means spending some time with them, just the two of you. Could be doing whatever you like! I would love to find a girlfriend that enjoys even some of the "geeky" stuff. Video games, Renaissance faires (and dressing up in fun costumes), doing something goofy and wild, and things like that. That would be a blast, but I just haven't really met any girls into those same kinds of things.