Quote Originally Posted by Noblejanobii View Post
Yeah my parents tend to go "blame first and never figure out the truth". Dad sometimes can be reasonable but Mom rarely is. It's just always your fault even if it really isn't.

Yeah my parents like to backseat drive and my dad decided to take today to lecture me about how I drive too fast all the time (I drive the speed limit unless I'm on the highway) and how that's probably the cause since if you're driving slow you can see if you're about to hit a car. I called his BS saying I had done this several times before hand and that I was driving slow and that it did look to me like I had cleared it. But he said I was lying because of course he does. It doesn't help this is my second wreck either and he's still convinced last time was due to me texting even though my phone was in my purse the whole time but whatever.

I saw Inside Out for the first time flying home from Spain and had the same thought.
This wasn't even a driving-related incident, this was by parking (and this kind of thing happens all the time, no less). Still, your parents seem to not only scratch the "innocent until proven guilty" state, they go beyond "guilty until proven innocent" and take it to the state of "guilty just because I said so!" And then they make up a story about it and call you the liar. This isn't even a wreck, it's just a bit of damage. No one was hurt. It's not like either car was totaled as a result. Forget it, though, you could have accidentally run over a flea and your parents would be screaming murder.

Really, don't waste time trying to appease them. Their expectations are impossible to satisfy from the sound of things. You know the truth, and if all they're doing is scapegoating you, don't take it to heart. That's them being out of touch with reality and being without reason. Tell yourself if they couldn't prove it in a court of law, then it might as well be a lame joke. "Oh sure, it's my fault it's raining. Yeah, totally intended for that this morning with my special weather-controlling superpowers." "Oh, the ATM at the bank wasn't working? Heh, my bad, that was my alter-ego spirit animal sabotaging it in the middle of the night just for funsies." "Road work being done on the way home? Yeah, sorry, a few hours ago I was trying to help the Power Rangers battle a dragon and the collateral damage was more than intended. Heh, silly us. Don't worry, we got him so hopefully it won't happen again. Hopefully."

Really, at this point, might as well just have fun with it.