Pet Peeves with Housemates

[Pokemon Trainer Sarah]

@Neo Emolga

Damn Neo... that's really bad. :/ Your dad really refuses to kick her out or at least enforce some house rules like having to pay rent (so she needs to get a job/not spend her money on alcohol)?? You've probably tried this but what about tackling it from the "enabling her" angle, where he is contributing to her bad state of affairs by letting her live there and spiral further into debt and alcoholism? I hope you can get out of there soon or that it otherwise somehow works itself out!

[Neo Emolga]

@Neo Emolga

Damn Neo... that's really bad. :/ Your dad really refuses to kick her out or at least enforce some house rules like having to pay rent (so she needs to get a job/not spend her money on alcohol)?? You've probably tried this but what about tackling it from the "enabling her" angle, where he is contributing to her bad state of affairs by letting her live there and spiral further into debt and alcoholism? I hope you can get out of there soon or that it otherwise somehow works itself out!

He did at least declare he's not giving her any more money. At least there's that. But yeah, he doesn't enforce house rules. I told him that if he doesn't take action, she'll be here forever. I guess I need to figure out some other kind of strategy to get through to him. He can sometimes be a bit tough to figure out.