Quote Originally Posted by Chakramaster View Post
Don't worry about it Gem. Sometimes you gotta get rants out. Yeah, the work is mostly in the day, but it's something they've had plans to do since before I was even born (sometime in the 80s I believe). Now, I'm 25 and they just started sometime last year =3. Yeah I'm not a super outdoors kinda person myself. More of an indoor recluse Though some places have really good sights (mountains I've been on and beaches around here are nice...unless flooded with jellyfish and stingray). Even saving up goes so far though. Especially with bills and all. Being able to have enough financial stability to provide for a family is quite expensive today.

That sucks. If you do go out with them again then try changing it up a bit. Whenever I do hang out with my friends here (both are engaged and living with each other, yet they still find time to hang out with me occasionally). They don't sit there and talk about their own future or talk of having kids. The only time they do is when my other friend (the one in the Navy) brings it up and talks about how many girls he's been with. They've all got at least an experience while I sit back and just get to listen xD. Oh well I usually ignore it all when they do. Though tuning in a little helps learn a few things lol.

I can understand if a friend tells you they already "have plans," but when completely ignored later on it's kind of frustrating yeah. I mean it can be just as easy to forget, don't get me wrong. I mean who knows? Maybe business took them out of town or country? The only two friends in town I hang out with go out of town on a daily basis now and never respond to me right away xD. Yeah it's the little things that really count. It doesn't have to be anything super expensive, but it would've been nice if they had at least given something back in return. It's happened on a few occasions here, but not too often. Mostly they would explain why by saying they didn't have enough money at the time so they couldn't get anything. That's something I can understand and it's perfectly fine.

Again don't worry about the rant. It's easy to get a bit carried away when talking about stuff. So rant away if need be! It's a discussion thread for stuff like this.
I should really make a #rant blog. xD But that would just feel like I'm complaining. It would be totally cool if you lived closer though, I'd hang out with you all the time! :D Wow, that sure was a long time ago! O: Mine is more recent, but it's still annoying. My step-mum told me last week to save up for a holiday, and my first response was "but who would I go with?" xD I don't find holidays are very interesting when you can't share it with anybody. Sure is, I can barely afford to provide for myself with all the bills. Y UR GST SO HIGH, AUSTRALIA?

Yeah, that makes me feel as though they care more for themselves than my actual interests (which is probably the case anyway). Ahaha, that's like me when I listen to my friends and their experiences. xD I'm just like "uuuuuuuum yeah." *sits back and listens* Smile and nod lol.

Yeah, but if every, EVERY, time it's the same excuse "I'm busy"...that's just mean. 3: And no, he's not out of town or country last time I checked. xD Facebook lol. I find that more often than not, people just don't talk to me. And that makes me feel as though I'm not very interesting at all, or I'm doing something wrong. But that can't be, because I try my best to be nice. Is my niceness not enough? D: That makes me sad. If there was an explanation, yeah, that would be fine. If they didn't have money I would totally understand. But I got nothing. None of that, just a 'thanks' when receiving my gift and that was the end of that. I didn't feel right asking so I just dropped it.