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[Chibi Altaria]

Man it's hard to look at that and know I still haven't even had a girlfriend. Oh well...in due time. That day will eventually come! =D

Well, I haven't had a girlfriend yet either while a lot of people I know have already gotten married and started having kids. I dunno, I'm not really gung-ho to go rushing into that kind of thing, plus I don't really have the financial security I need to be able to do that kind of stuff. If I'm going to have kids, I need to be able to provide for them in both time and money, and I don't really have that at the moment. Besides, it's not a race. Getting married and having kids doesn't add bonus points to your total score in life. It's all about accomplishing the things you personally find are meaningful in your life and learning who you are and what you want to become. For some, sure, that includes getting married and having kids. For other guys like us, there are other goals, and as time moves along, sure, that can be all subject to change based on experiences and what we've learned over time.

To me, not having a colossal group of friends and having a girlfriend is not me being antisocial. It's more about being selectively social, and I'd rather hang around people and places that share my interests, values, and show decency and respect. But if that's not possible, it's better to experience individualism than to be with bad company.

Who needs significant others when you have Pokemon? 8D #foreveralone

It makes me feel really insecure sometimes, I mean I know I'm only 24 and that's still young, but most of my friends are either in long-term relationships, engaged, married, or have had kids and bought their own house. .-. And here I am, just going through life working and playing Pokemon like WHEN IS IT GOING TO HAPPEN TO MEEEEE. XD Of course it might actually help if I went OUTSIDE. The only time I really leave my house is to work. I'm just too tired otherwise. x.x Makes meeting anyone really hard lol.

I don't have a lot of friends, either. And the one regular friend I DID have just got a girlfriend, so I'm pretty much down to zero friends I actually see, now. xD;; But that's okay. I have everyone on PXR <3 and I will continue doing what I've been doing. In the meantime I plan to continue my drawing, maybe release a novel. Create a comic. /becomefamous