I had to look up graysexual.... turns out that's what I am
Been wondering about that.

I work in a very social environment with a lot of people of the opposite gender, but I generally don't engage in physical relationships. Even when I'm dating someone the actual closeness is more important to me than sex. All my friends thought I was homosexual, and I thought I was asexual... now I can tell them I'm just graysexual :)