I often feel the way you do, Speed. I refrain from competitive battling in general because I dislike losing. xD And I have had similar issues with feeling that way about WAR in the past. This year I have taken a completely different view. I'm only in it for fun and I'm treating the whole WAR as a means of boosting PXR's activity rather than as something I want to win. It's hard to change that point of view sometimes, I know. But by focusing more on my team (and newer members from other teams!), encouraging and supporting them, rather than running around trying to earn points in everything, I am actually having a lot more fun!
Something more concrete that might help is entering contests that you don't expect to win. Entering events you're good at is hard because of the pressure you and your team and the forum at large put on you by expecting you to win. If you enter something that you're not the best at and not expecting to win then it is a nice surprise if you do rather than a huge failure if you don't!
I know it's hard but I guess the thing to remember is that it's all about having fun. If you're not enjoying yourself then maybe it's a good idea to give a particularly stressful contest a miss for that week. Within Trainer, I have done my best to emphasise that it's all about fun and participation. I don't want anyone to feel pressured to enter anything they don't enjoy/feel like doing, let alone pressured to win. In the end, it's not like it will all make a difference a week after WAR when everyone forgets what happened and starts looking forward to the next year. :)
I would probably feel a bit stressed if people were rooting against me in a battle too. But especially for this week, it's challenge cup right? You have absolutely no control over your team or anything. If you lose, it's not really a reflection on you. That's one of the reasons I enjoy challenge cup matches! :D






















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