Originally Posted by
Vishnal
How can I join an event where I am asked to send out messages to people I barely know? I know I could send a simple "Happy Valentine's Day!" message, but that feels so generic and insensitive to me. I want to be able to give messages from the heart, and I personally cannot do that when I don't know much about the other people participating. I know there are people who can do this without any problem, but I'm certain I'm far from the only one who cannot.
Also—and as far as I can tell, maybe I'm wrong—most the people participating know each other and have been around the forum for years. That's where the event feels more exclusive than inclusive. Compare the number of Valentines veteran members/staff to those newer/less active members received. The newer/less active members have far fewer Valentines. Now, can you really say that's very fair? Those who haven't been on the forum for long should have just as much a chance to receive as many Valentines as those who have been on longer. (On that note, the notion that people can send as many Valentines as they want for the event's finale makes it much more fair, in my opinion, so I'm glad you guys included that!)
I'm not saying the more active/veteran members and staff should stop participating in events, as that would go against my beliefs, but I do think everyone should have a more equal chance than they seem to have.
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