Quote Originally Posted by Noblejanobii View Post
I was raised to serve others so most of the times I rarely do anything that aids me in any way. It's not the best system but it makes people happy, which makes me happy. But being self indulgent isn't all bad. It's a lot less stressful actually.
It's a psychological/philosophical argument, but I do believe there is no such thing as an unselfish behaviour (we just like to think there are!).

Selfishness isn't always correlated with immorality. Understanding that was the first step to learning that taking care of myself is very important (especially when you're the type of person to ruin your own wellbeing for somebody else's - no one is that important). You just need to set standards for which selfish behaviours are okay.