I Wanna Start a Family

[Steel Lunpara]

I figured it out! Just marry someone who ALREADY has children! :D (Or grandchildren XD) And that's all the hard work done.

Of course, brilliant! (Frost jumps into a bush and waits like a creep for the next whole bunch of years.)

[Rival Max]

Im actually in that phase of my life now. There are lots of things to take into account. The main thing is to find a suitable partner with the same goals.

[Noblejanobii]

Im actually in that phase of my life now. There are lots of things to take into account. The main thing is to find a suitable partner with the same goals.

So, just because you do have experience in this area, is it warranted to be scared that you won't be a good parent?

[Rival Max]

There is always reasons to be scared. A child takes in the whole world around them. As far as where i am at i just think i have a formula that will work for me. None of us will really know until that moment.

[Vishnal]

I haven't even gone on a date yet I don't have any right to think about starting a family yet :V

Though really, I have given it some thought in the unlikely event I do get married, and I'm unsure. On one hand, I would prefer adoption to natural birth—I don't even know if I have the same condition my mom has, which made it difficult for her to conceive me and could have killed her—but at the same time, going childless also sounds good. I guess it would depend on where my spouse and I are financially. I wouldn't want to raise kids knowing they would grow up in poverty or that my spouse and I would be unable to properly tend to them.

[Suicune's Fire]

By 'family' I'm assuming you mean kids. I have several reasons why I'm not having kids, the primary one being that I don't want them at all. xP I'm far happier with animals!

[Dragon Master Mike]

As of now I don't think I want kids, but being only 17, not to mention never even having been on a date, I have a while to go before I have to start thinking about it, so this is subject to change.

[[Desolate Divine]]

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[Mujaffa]

well i could try to explain it but this picture does it more justice than i could with words!

if you didnt get the joke, it's im very irresponsible

[Minatsuki]

I'm not too sure if I want my own child or not. My boyfriend would love to have a successor, but I just don't feel like I would be a competent mother. Like, I know how to raise children and teach them, since I am a preschool teacher, but I'm not sure how I would be able to do that as a mother. It really is an issue for me. Some days I'm like, "Yeah, I would like a child," and other days, usually after a bad day with the kiddos, "lol nope never bae."

If we do decide to have a child, it won't be until the future. We both want to get our degrees and get ourselves out of major debt before we bring in a child to this cruel world.

I'm just checked and the yearly wage is average $61000.

Tell me where you live so I can move there when I get my teaching degree. /shot