Relationship Status

[[Desolate Divine]]

Oh Joy. Single. Been single forever. And doesn't look like it is changing any time soon. Basically every time I have been interested in a girl, she hasn't felt the same. The one time where I thought a girl liked me, I knew her online via a mate (he was skyping with her whilst I was at his house), and it seemed like she liked me. We talked the next day for twelve hours straight. Went from talking on facebook, to texting (she asked for my number), then skyped in the one night. And we were talking nearly daily after that, but after a while, she just seemed to not be interested in talking to me, as if she was all of a sudden annoyed by my presence (she instigated most of the original conversations). I haven't spoken to her in a few years, though I walked past her in the shopping center the other day. I think she recognized me, but I was talking on the phone and didn't acknowledge her. Granted, I will be seeing her in a week or two at a party, so that could be awkward...

[SassySnivy]

Oh Joy. Single. Been single forever. And doesn't look like it is changing any time soon. Basically every time I have been interested in a girl, she hasn't felt the same. The one time where I thought a girl liked me, I knew her online via a mate (he was skyping with her whilst I was at his house), and it seemed like she liked me. We talked the next day for twelve hours straight. Went from talking on facebook, to texting (she asked for my number), then skyped in the one night. And we were talking nearly daily after that, but after a while, she just seemed to not be interested in talking to me, as if she was all of a sudden annoyed by my presence (she instigated most of the original conversations). I haven't spoken to her in a few years, though I walked past her in the shopping center the other day. I think she recognized me, but I was talking on the phone and didn't acknowledge her. Granted, I will be seeing her in a week or two at a party, so that could be awkward...

She might have felt like she was being too pushy by always starting the conversation. It sounds like she wanted you to start the conversations after a while because maybe she felt like she was annoying you...but when you didn't, she probably just didn't think you were interested.

Just trying to offer an alternate perspective. Based on the information you gave, that's the assumption I've come to.

[Chakramaster]

Responding to these via mention cause text walls xD

@Speed-X It's true you can't yeah. Everyone has their own wants in a S/O. Just sometimes it's the fact that a person may not even give another a chance just because of looks. It's true too that someone from years ago may turn out to be that one for you later on. We never know where these events will take us.

It'd be nice to say the same. It's just when you haven't even been able to get into one single relationship in....25 year it's, kind of hard to think "it takes a few bad apples," but all the while I can understand it. There's a point in life where thinking of a family after a certain age will become pretty much impossible. In the end thought yeah it may take a few attempts, but I can understand that totally. It's just hard when you try talking with another only for them to either constantly deny you or just laugh at you when you bring it up.

It's great to hear the stories sometimes though and hear from someone else's experiences. It pretty interesting to find someone. Like you said sometimes it being by chance/luck.

@Lunar Latias

Of course not Gem D=. That's another thing yeah. The person you may meet may not like "everything" you do. The main fact is that they make that connection with you and enjoy you for who you are, what you like, and you overall. Oh I'm sure the person you will find will love art, especially yours.

Finding a relation with your partner would be preferable in the end right? I mean even if they don't like anime or games as much as you might, if they at least enjoy you for it and bare through it and have fun or a good time watching it, that's something to appreciate and enjoy right? That's good to go by at least. We all have stubbornness to us, so it's all good.

YES, ANIME! IT IS THE NEW AGE OF LIFE AND IT'S LEGACY WILL CONTINUE ON!

Honestly life as we have probably all figured out, if way different than we thought it would be when we were kids. We though by the time we finished school things would be super fun and we'd not have to worry about stuff like that as much anymore. We thought we'd find someone to love maybe have our own families started too and a house, a car, a good stable job. Just basically be able to do whatever we want and not be told what to do by parents. Now, some of it may have come true, but not all of it has happened like we may have thought.

At least you have a good stable job. At least you have something to do you love to do that gets you by. A new lifestyle would never hurt, but yeah you'd need to be sure you are guaranteed a job when you get there and a place to live. Change can be great of course, but it can also be pretty terrifying if not planned well. We never know where we may be in the future. Whether that take us across the country or around the world.

[[Desolate Divine]]

She might have felt like she was being too pushy by always starting the conversation. It sounds like she wanted you to start the conversations after a while because maybe she felt like she was annoying you...but when you didn't, she probably just didn't think you were interested.

Just trying to offer an alternate perspective. Based on the information you gave, that's the assumption I've come to.

That's the thing. She started original conversations, then I began starting them, and after I did, she lost interest.

[Steel Lunpara]

I have a girlfriend. We're gonna break up in a few months when I head off to college.

I dunno, it sucks, but life happens. We're not going to deal with any of that long distance relationship crap, that's not happening.

[Bulbasaur]

I'm single. Don't really want to be in a relationship. The only one I've been in lasted a week and ended due to cheating, so that kinda got rid of my passion to have a girlfriend.

[SassySnivy]

Damn, this thread...got really depressing really fast. xD Whaaaat? What happened?! D8

[Chakramaster]

Damn, this thread...got really depressing really fast. xD Whaaaat? What happened?! D8

All of the singles revealed their status and our desires and how unobtainable they are right now or how bleak they seem. xD

[Trainer17]

Well that escalated quickly. Guys do not worry if you're single. You have Pokemon throughout your lives! On a more serious note. I always believe that there is one meant for us. Always hope for the better. Or be prepared for the worse! ... I think I made it worse. Lol

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[Chibi Altaria]

Damn, this thread...got really depressing really fast. xD Whaaaat? What happened?! D8

Well when you bring up the subject of relationships (especially to us oldies) it really makes you think back on everything that's wrong with your life. XD

Ah, but maybe that's just me? :p